If you're going to live in any moment, let it be now! Quit living in past (bad) moments - they only serve to bring you down, depress you, make you wish for something that used to be or never was. Gods grace and forgiveness covers a multitude of sin, and if He can forgive you and forget you ever done that thing you did, then why are you stuck focusing on it?!
This not only applies to us, but our loved ones and friends, and hey! Even your neighbor! If God has forgiven them, then why are YOU still bringing it up? Get over it and move on. Allow them to move on - don't keep bringing up their past. It's there for a reason - a lesson to be learned, a season to have gone through to polish them up a little more for the calling that God has on their lives. Do you really want to mess with God and their calling? He's a big, big person that I'd rather not have to deal with for messing with one of his babies and I would almost be willing to bet that you don't either, ha ha!
My point is - let it go. Receive the freedom and joy and peace that God longs for you to walk in. He doesn't want us bound up and living in the past - not able to forgive ourselves, or others for that matter - He wants us victorious and walking in health, wholeness, love and freedom (and so much more!). What's it going to be for you today? Choose life!
